#BreakThings: Chasing Time

12.01.20

Time is the only commodity that we can’t make more of. Every minute, hour and day are the same length. What you fill them with and how you use them is up to you.

And on December 1st of any year, I think it’s normal to reflect on how you used the last 11 months.

But on December 1st of 2020, I hope you’ll give yourself a little grace if progress was fleeting this year.

I’m trying to make the most of the next month by setting up some positive habits that will carry me into the New Year. Because even when you can’t move your big goals forward, you can build a stronger foundation for your life with small, every day changes.

When I was younger, I set out on the path to have my dream job. The older I get, the more I realize that everyone’s dreams are different. Everyone’s path is different. And in the wake of the pandemic, it seems that many young people want comfort and stability more than they want a meaningful career. But how can they make others understand that having a job is good enough?

Today’s gift ideas come to us from Food52. For years the website has been putting out amazing recipes and foodie content, but their shop is loaded with incredible cooking essentials and housewares, not to mention some pretty tasty snacks.

Speaking of tasty things, this slow-cooker bolognese is perfect for family dinner night. It’s delicious, comforting, and a crowd-pleaser. Just add a simple salad and some garlic toast.

Oh, and if you want to make it extra special, try it with Rao’s pasta. Because not all noodles are created equal.

Red lipstick looks amazing on Zoom. This article helps you find the perfect one to match your complexion. Because every woman deserves a great red lipstick.

(P.S. This is my favorite red.)

This Wit & Delight article focuses on how to advocate for yourself in a romantic relationship. And while that advice is desperately needed, I thought it was also a good primer on how to define your needs and learn how to express them to others in general. A very good read.

2020 was the year that I learned to ruthlessly mute, unfriend, unsubscribe, and unfollow. And my life is better for it.

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