#BreakThings: Distanced

11.19.20

As the holidays begin, the impact of social distancing is at its apex. We are separated from our friends and relatives. And it’s hard, but today, I want to talk about a different kind of separation.

I feel like a stranger in my own life right now. The things that I depend on for my sanity, for my fulfillment, for my joy, just aren’t possible. And now that the weather has turned, things feel even more bleak.

2019 wasn’t easy. And I think a lot of us were just starting to work toward something better when COVID flipped the world on its head. So we didn’t heal, we didn’t begin anew, we just went into a state of suspended animation.

I’m trying to be hopeful about the future. But having faith is difficult right now. So I’m searching for things that will bring a little color back into the world. I’ll let you know what I find.

Self-sabotage isn’t always easy to spot. HBR covers the five most common types of self-sabotage and discusses how you can work your way out of the trap. Because when you’re working against yourself, burnout is inevitable.

I can’t stress how much you should watch these Moss & Fog videos of how plants move during the day, because houseplants are actually very active.

My favorite sweater is the Free People Ottoman sweater. It’s oversized and comfortable and perfect for a COVID winter. But it’s pricey, so this similar option from Amazon is a welcome edition to the space.

This is Kyle’s and my second Christmas as a married couple, but we haven’t done a good job of creating our own traditions. I thought this article from Camille Styles was a good place to start if you and your immediate family want to start building traditions of your own.

These boots are amazing for walking on snowy sidewalks, and they’re super chic. Don’t miss them, or any of Madewell’s amazing shoe styles right now.

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